Relationships
Relationships: All Men Cheat, But It’s Okay because He Loves Me
Do all men cheat?
The question is subjective. Based on who you ask, the answer is yes. A lot of times, when someone has been hurt over and over, their perception is skewed. Then, they allow people use and abuse them, in the name of love.
“Yeah, my man cheats, but all men cheat. He loves me and still comes home to me at night,” so says, the lady in love.
But, the real question is, does a man really love you, if he constantly cheats on you?
Relationships are hard. The world is full of temptations. But, there are billions of people on this planet; I’m sure you can find one that respects you enough to spare your feelings. Don’t get me wrong, if you’re okay with it, by all means have at it. But, for me, cheating is unacceptable. It may not be a deal breaker, but it will not be tolerated, consistently.
It’s understandable that people make mistakes but, after the third or fourth time, it’s no longer a mistake. It is a conscious decision to violate your partner’s trust. I refuse to believe that someone, who says they love me, will break my heart by cheating.
These days, society glorifies the side chick. Everyone enjoys to watch the drama unfold when the Becky approaches the girlfriend, “as a woman.” So, on top of the disloyalty and unfaithfulness, there’s disrespect and public humiliation, in what world does that equate to love?
It’s like people gain a sense of accomplishment or superiority complex, by allowing someone to do their dirt all day, as long as they come home to them at night. But, who am I to judge, if it works for you, so be it. But, as long as you allow your partner to disrespect the relationship, he will continue to do so. You have to draw the line somewhere. You have to have a little more respect for yourself. That way, you will always be able to demand respect from others. If you don’t respect yourself, no one else will.
Entertainment Gists
Jennifer Lopez Shuts Down Reporter Who Asked A Question Over Rumored Marital Crisis With Ben Affleck
Singer and actress, Jennifer Lopez who sat for a panel discussion in Mexico City for her upcoming movie, “Atlas,” shut down a reporter who asked a question about her rumored marital crisis with actor Ben Affleck.
When asked about the status of her relationship with Ben, Jennifer gave the reporter a piece of her mind. Leaning forward, she said “You know better than that,” before she smiled and straightened up in her chair.
Another panelist also admonished the reporter for bringing up the delicate subject as J Lo went back to talking about her film.
Jennifer and Ben have been a hot topic in the media of late. The couple recently hit a rough patch and are now living in separate homes in Los Angeles.
Ben has been photographed around town without his wedding ring, while also going out to dinner with Jennifer and attending a school function together for her child, Emme.
Big Brother Naija reality star, Saskay has gone public with her man.
Saskay is dating a chef named Aderinsola, aka Chef Derin.
They simultaneously unveiled their relationship on X by posting photos of each other at the same time.
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Entertainment Gists
Cardi B Lashes Out At Her Fans in Profanity-laden Rant Following Suggestion of Reconciliation With Husband Offset
Rapper Cardi B set the record straight following online speculation that suggested she reconciled with her estranged husband, Offset.
Cardi took to X on Friday, December 29, to shut down the claims after she was seen in New York with her ex one day before.
“Shut the f–k up,” Cardi shouted. “Did I say I was back together with somebody?! Did I say [sic] that?!” She further called out her fan base, claiming she doesn’t see anybody else “talking s–t” but her supporters.
The mother-of-two also noted that Offset has not revealed whether or not they got back together either. “Did y’all heard [sic] that?” she asked listeners in the livestream. “Did I said [sic] it? Did he said [sic] it? No!”
Earlier in the same livestream, Cardi threatened to delete her social media accounts due to online rumors about her marriage. “Shut the f*** up,” she yelled. “I’m about to delete my whole social media because y’all don’t shut the f*** up!”
The Grammy winner emphasized that it was Cardi B fan accounts that are creating the online drama. “My own f****** fan base,” the 31-year-old continued. “The last time I got dragged was because my f****** fan base. I don’t see nobody talking s*** but my own f****** fan base.” Before she went on to clarify that she has not revealed whether or not she’s reconciled with Offset, Cardi told fans to “leave” her “the f*** alone.” The Whipshots founder even threatened to “unfollow” her fans following the online drama.
Speculation that Cardi and Offset had reconciled emerged after a fan shared two separate photos with each of the respective musicians in New York City. “Luckyyyme [sic],” the fan captioned the two snapshots shared via Instagram Stories.
In one selfie, Cardi held up the peace sign and seemingly rocked a makeup-free face. Offset did not smile and simply held up prayer hands as he posed alongside the admirer.
Cardi confirmed that she had split from Offset during an Instagram Live earlier this month. She addressed claims her husband cheated on her with fellow rapper Chrisean Rock, to which she said she does not “think” so.
Cardi claimed her issues with Offset have been ongoing for a while and she looks forward to moving on. “I want to start 2024 fresh, open,” she continued. “I’m curious for a new life, a new beginning. I’m excited.”
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