Relationships
He Likes Me, He Likes Me Not: A Mixed Signal Is A Clear Signal
Boy meets girl, says and does all the right things and girl starts falling for boy. Suddenly, boys becomes inconsistent and his words are no longer matching his actions and girl begins to feel confused. Girl runs it by her friends and they all conclude that this dude is sending mixed signal and they encourage her to hang in there and give her a million and one excuses as to why she should. Errr. HALT. If you’re unclear about what’s going on it’s usually a clear indication that the two of you are not on the same page.
Dating can be tricky but it’s nowhere near as tricky as it’s made out to be. For some reason, we Love to complicate things instead of seeing them for what they are and imagine there is some secret code we must crack. I don’t believe in mixed signals, a mixed signal is a clear one. I’m sure you’re familiar with the term “actions speak louder than words” and it rings true in cases like this. If someone is wooing you with words yet failing to follow up there is little to be confused about. Maybe the person you’re into really is conflicted, stringing you along or there is a total lack of interest, the line can be very fine. “Why can’t they just be honest?” “Why won’t they just SAY that?” right? That’s too much like right.
- Do you really want to wait around to see which it is? In the long run you’ll be happy you didn’t waste your time waiting for a green light at a stop sign. When you know, you know. You won’t be left to wonder, have to jump through hoops, call Miss Cleo’s cousin or stand on one leg while barking and holding a plastic fork to figure it out. You. Will. Know.
What is your experience with mixed signals? Do you believe it’s just a term women use when they’re in denial that someone lacks interest?
Entertainment Gists
Jennifer Lopez Shuts Down Reporter Who Asked A Question Over Rumored Marital Crisis With Ben Affleck
Singer and actress, Jennifer Lopez who sat for a panel discussion in Mexico City for her upcoming movie, “Atlas,” shut down a reporter who asked a question about her rumored marital crisis with actor Ben Affleck.
When asked about the status of her relationship with Ben, Jennifer gave the reporter a piece of her mind. Leaning forward, she said “You know better than that,” before she smiled and straightened up in her chair.
Another panelist also admonished the reporter for bringing up the delicate subject as J Lo went back to talking about her film.
Jennifer and Ben have been a hot topic in the media of late. The couple recently hit a rough patch and are now living in separate homes in Los Angeles.
Ben has been photographed around town without his wedding ring, while also going out to dinner with Jennifer and attending a school function together for her child, Emme.
Big Brother Naija reality star, Saskay has gone public with her man.
Saskay is dating a chef named Aderinsola, aka Chef Derin.
They simultaneously unveiled their relationship on X by posting photos of each other at the same time.
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Entertainment Gists
Cardi B Lashes Out At Her Fans in Profanity-laden Rant Following Suggestion of Reconciliation With Husband Offset
Rapper Cardi B set the record straight following online speculation that suggested she reconciled with her estranged husband, Offset.
Cardi took to X on Friday, December 29, to shut down the claims after she was seen in New York with her ex one day before.
“Shut the f–k up,” Cardi shouted. “Did I say I was back together with somebody?! Did I say [sic] that?!” She further called out her fan base, claiming she doesn’t see anybody else “talking s–t” but her supporters.
The mother-of-two also noted that Offset has not revealed whether or not they got back together either. “Did y’all heard [sic] that?” she asked listeners in the livestream. “Did I said [sic] it? Did he said [sic] it? No!”
Earlier in the same livestream, Cardi threatened to delete her social media accounts due to online rumors about her marriage. “Shut the f*** up,” she yelled. “I’m about to delete my whole social media because y’all don’t shut the f*** up!”
The Grammy winner emphasized that it was Cardi B fan accounts that are creating the online drama. “My own f****** fan base,” the 31-year-old continued. “The last time I got dragged was because my f****** fan base. I don’t see nobody talking s*** but my own f****** fan base.” Before she went on to clarify that she has not revealed whether or not she’s reconciled with Offset, Cardi told fans to “leave” her “the f*** alone.” The Whipshots founder even threatened to “unfollow” her fans following the online drama.
Speculation that Cardi and Offset had reconciled emerged after a fan shared two separate photos with each of the respective musicians in New York City. “Luckyyyme [sic],” the fan captioned the two snapshots shared via Instagram Stories.
In one selfie, Cardi held up the peace sign and seemingly rocked a makeup-free face. Offset did not smile and simply held up prayer hands as he posed alongside the admirer.
Cardi confirmed that she had split from Offset during an Instagram Live earlier this month. She addressed claims her husband cheated on her with fellow rapper Chrisean Rock, to which she said she does not “think” so.
Cardi claimed her issues with Offset have been ongoing for a while and she looks forward to moving on. “I want to start 2024 fresh, open,” she continued. “I’m curious for a new life, a new beginning. I’m excited.”
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