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Relationships: Signs You Are in an Unhealthy Relationship

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9 years ago

10th September 2017

Relationships require a lot of work to maintain happiness. In the midst of trying to remain happy, you begin to question yourself and the relationship. Often times we stay in a relationship under certain circumstances at the expense of our happiness. Life is too short to stay in an unhealthy atmosphere.

Although, we have been told to never stay in a situation that makes you unhappy, we continue to do it anyway. But, why? At times, we think that the other person is going to change or you think that having children will change them. But, it won’t. Bringing children into an unhealthy relationship is going to be hard on the children and ultimately make you more miserable. Marriage or children do not help relationships that are already broken.

Unhealthy relationships are not only for exclusive relationships but situationships as well. There are many side chicks and dudes that have been in their “situationship” for years. Although the other person’s heart is with someone else, they continue to stay. The way you feel about the person is indescribable and you want to shout to the world about your girl or guy. Only problem is, you’re embarrassed to tell them that you are the side piece and that they don’t plan on leaving the one they’re with.

There are many signs that you must pay attention to when in an unhealthy relationship. If you are unsure whether or not you are in one, check out a few scenarios below:

If you start to lose yourself throughout the relationship, it is time to end that situation. There should never be a moment when you look in the mirror and no longer recognize the person staring back at you. Be with someone that you can be yourself around. Let them love you unconditionally and show you that you are the only one that takes their breath away.

Another sign is the constant break up to make up routine. These don’t often end well. The break-ups could occur because of lack of communication, trust, and pure unhappiness. Don’t keep putting yourself in a situation thinking the other person is going to change. When someone shows you who they are, you have to believe it. Do not brush it off, then you will find yourself doing the same song and dance over and over again.

You are in an unhealthy relationship if you two don’t have trust. If you find yourself constantly snooping through their phone or personals, you need to let it go. Also, if you are constantly accusing them of doing something they aren’t, this is a true deal breaker. There’s no need to be with someone you can’t trust.

Carrying on a relationship with someone else’s mate is clearly unhealthy and will stop you from possibly meeting “the one.” Stop thinking that things are going to change. Putting your focus into someone that doesn’t have your best interest at heart is selfish and unfair to both. Find someone that will love, respect, and show you that you are the only one for them. Take your time and be patient…Love is waiting!

There are so many other signs that you are in an unhealthy relationship. Be sure to pay attention to them. Do not ignore them! If you do, you are creating more issues for the both of you.

Happiness, trust, and communication are the keys to a successful and healthy relationship. What would you add to the list?

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MTN Subscriber Wins N12Million with N100 in MTN-WinWise Salary4life Using the Code 201441*1#

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2 years ago

21st November 2024

Usman Oladuntoye

An MTN subscriber, Prince from Rivers State, has won Twelve Million Naira (N12,000,000) with a modest N100 in the MTN-WinWise lottery games promoted by Whispa Konnect in collaboration with telecommunications giant, MTN, after dialing the code *20144*1*1#.
This marks the second time within a year that Whispa Konnect has rewarded its players with a jackpot prize, reaffirming its commitment to changing lives through its innovative lottery platform.

Management of Whispa Konnect, led by the Company Chairman, Igbene Oritsetinmeyin, presented the lucky winner with a Twelve Million Naira cheque at a mini ceremony in Lagos to affirm the credibility of the MTN-WinWise lottery games.
According to Igbene, Whispa Konnect is fulfilling its statutory pledge and commitment to rewarding players with their deserved prizes without compromise. “Today, we are presenting a Twelve Million Naira cheque to our MTN-WinWise jackpot winner, Prince, as part of our commitment to upholding trust and transparency.

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On his part, Prince expressed his gratitude to Whispa Konnect, operators of the MTN-WinWise lottery games, for making the process seamless and rewarding. He said, “I can confidently say my dream of becoming a millionaire has come true all thanks to Whispa Konnect and MTN. I will be screaming to anyone out there who still have doubts about the WinWise games that winning is real.”

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DJ Venum Headlines Infini Experience

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3 years ago

16th May 2023

Usman Oladuntoye

On Saturday, April 29th, guests were welcomed to The Base Nightclub in Gbagada, Lagos, for the maiden edition of a one-of-a-kind travel to outer space party.

The event’s goal was to promote outstanding music while also presenting the best of nightlife culture. Special visitors at the Infini Experience included light of the trenches Superwozzy, Viktoh former YBNL signee, international video director Naya Effectz, remarkable creative artist, model, and dancer Hermés Iyele, and a slew of other international personalities.

Supreme DJ Venum grabbed the audience with an energetic set, presenting them to fresh and emerging sounds from some of the musicians in attendance.

The Infini Experience’s second edition is set to take place in Lagos soon. Make sure that you’re a part of it!

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Talented Nigerian singer and act, Chaplet has delivered a new impressive tune dubbed, “Akanchanwa”

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3 years ago

14th April 2023

Usman Oladuntoye

Talented Nigerian singer and act, Chaplet has delivered a new impressive tune dubbed, “Akanchanwa”.

CHAPLETT, a rapidly emerging Nigerian musician signed to Remmy Uche Record, will release “Akanchanwa,” his first song of the year, on April 14, 2023.

The name “Akanchanwa” translates from his native Igbo language to “excellent hands that bring new things” in English. In keeping with what we have come to expect from Chaplett, the new track exemplifies his distinct sound by fusing Amapiano elements with pounding impact and melodic riff arrangements. Audiences will get an immersive listening experience thanks to the song Akanchanwa’s strong vocals and skillfully constructed music.

The Morden trap sensation Chaplett, also known as Somtochukwu Eze, put in a ton of effort in the studio to make sure that “Akanchanwa” is flawless in every way. The outcome is a song that is both polished and raw, showcasing exceptional talent and devotion to his craft.

He is eager for his fans to hear the song because of his extraordinary passion and commitment to the music industry.