Actress Olayode Juliana, a.ok.a. Toyo Baby has revealed that she misplaced her virginity at the age of 17. She additionally revealed extra particulars about her life, how she gained admission to review Mass Comm at the University of Ibadan, How Her Pastor sexually assaulted her and extra.
This was revealed in her a lot anticipated guide titled, “REBIRTH”.
The 23 chapter guide has detailed revelations in regards to the good, dangerous and ugly components of her life we are going to summarize in 10 factors beneath.
1) She misplaced her virginity at 17 to her married music trainer
Juliana gave detailed narration of how she misplaced her virginity to her married music trainer at 17, how he brainwashed her into believing he would marry her.
The day lastly got here. He needed to maneuver the date as a result of he was anticipating some cash that he needed to make use of to pay for a great lodge, however shifting it will imply my mum again from church. So, he settled for an inexpensive lodge. I nonetheless keep in mind the scent of cigarette that crammed the room. I hated the scent of alcohol and cigarette; I nonetheless do. We needed to wait at the reception for the room to be cleaned and aired.
So, we went again into the room, and it occurred. It was a painful expertise for me.
I cried at completely different factors and he stored apologising, begging me to maintain my voice down
lest they suppose he was raping me. He instructed me to chill out and bear the ache. In his phrases, “don’t be a weak girl”.
That bought at me as a result of I hated feeling or being handled as weak.I requested for a break. He tutored me some extra and tried once more till he lastly bought by means of. It was not something like he had instructed me it will be. I noticed no clouds, I made no sounds, I felt nothing particular. It was painful all the best way, but it surely was apparent he was happy.
When he was accomplished, I checked the mattress for blood. I screamed! There was no blood!
He instructed me that not all virgins noticed blood. I used to be so confused, however selected to imagine him anyway. Soon after, he slept, and I used to be there crying. Why didn’t I see blood? Even if not all virgins see blood, why ought to I be on that listing? How would I inform the story of dropping my virginity with out blood? Who would imagine me that I used to be really a virgin?
2) Juliana Olayode’s mom is an illiterate! (She can NOT learn)
Although her father is educated, Juliana revealed that her mom was uneducated and couldn’t learn!
In my letter to my mum, I used to be capable of inform her how terrified I had been dwelling in my step-dad’s home. I thanked her for telling me the small print of what occurred to her after dad requested her to depart. I instructed her I used to be happy with her
and that I might make her proud.
I gave it to her and she or he stored it in her bag. Later on, I requested her if she had learn it and she or he jogged my memory she couldn’t learn. I questioned how I forgot that. My dad was the one who might learn, not my mum.
So, your guess is nearly as good as mine. I needed to learn it to her! I used to be so shy. I learn it to her and needed to clarify some components in Yoruba. Long earlier than I used to be accomplished, she was already crying.
I mentioned “I really like you” to my mum and it sounded so unusual to my ears. I pressured the phrases out of my mouth after which hugged her. My mum laughed and mentioned I used to be behaving like ‘Oyinbo’, like an American.
3) Her pastor abused her sexually!
Juliana additionally revealed that considered one of her pastors sexually abused her one time I bought to church and it was simply the pastor there. I assumed he was the one who picked his youngsters from faculty that day as they have been nonetheless of their faculty uniforms they usually have been with him in church. He instructed me to return into his workplace and requested his youngsters to enter the automotive.
In his workplace, he requested me if I learn the scriptures he gave me and if I noticed my prayer time. I instructed him I did. So he then claimed God instructed him I wanted a non secular bathtub and that I needed to take my garments off. He claimed his workplace had been
supernaturally made a non secular lavatory. He needed to scrub away the soiled water that was poured on me in my dream.
As he spoke these phrases, I started to cry. Was my case that vital? Why would God need me to have a shower within the pastor’s workplace? Couldn’t God wash me with out me taking off my garments? Why all these issues?
The pastor instructed me to cease crying and that I ought to observe God’s directions by means of him. He mentioned he would excuse me so God might do the sanctification. He left his workplace. I shut the door, made certain the home windows have been locked and put the curtains down. I used to be bare in his workplace. He had instructed me tips on how to pray and I prayed. I cried as I did.
I noticed the door deal with shifting so I rapidly bought up, and bought dressed. I opened the door and he got here in with oil. He claimed once more that God requested him to anoint my physique from head to toe.
So, the anointing session began. He anointed my head, my eyes, and
was shifting down. When he bought to my chest, he did the signal of the cross and needed to proceed to the touch me. I ended him and instructed him to place the oil in my hand. I might anoint myself.
He instructed me to lie down, that he needed to anoint me down there. It was at the purpose when he needed to anoint me, I remembered I had forgotten to put on my pant after I hurriedly dressed up. At that point, I additionally remembered the soiled issues Mr. F used to speak about. It was then my eyes have been opened and I knew what this man was attempting to do to me.
I bought upset, took my bag and left instantly.
4) How her Meeting with Mercy Aigbe modified her life
Talking about how controversial actress, Mercy Aigbe’s phrases modified her life, she wrote:
Someday final yr, I met Mercy Aigbe by means of considered one of my buddies that works together with her, Tosin Odusanya. She was very nice and sort. She answered a lot of my questions and gave me some severe phrases of recommendation. I might inform she was speaking from expertise.
At that point, I had simply been written out of the Jenifa’s Diary TV collection. I instructed her about my want to alter my social media account title from Toyo Baby to a different title I needed to push. I defined my fears and struggles.
After listening to me, she inspired me on my stand as a Christian, requested me to remain out of scandals and instructed me to take care of good relationships within the business. In response to my change of title, she instructed me sternly, “Do not confuse your followers. You labored arduous for that title. You gave life to the Toyo Baby character. Ride on it!”
It was after my dialog together with her, that I bought extra snug with individuals calling me Toyo Baby in all places and I watched God open doorways for me.
That meetingwith Mercy Aigbe was an awesome blessing to me.
5) She is barely 22 years outdated!
Even although she seems and carries herself like a 30 years outdated woman, Juliana simply turned 22, June, 2017!
I completed writing the primary draft of this guide some days to my birthday this yr. I clocked twenty-two (22) on Wednesday, the 7 of June, 2017. So, you’ll be able to simply deduce that that I used to be born Wednesday, the 7 of June, 1995. Now, I might assume that is probably the most stunning piece of knowledge on this guide. I’ve discovered that the highest query
individuals are asking Google about Juliana Olayode, is her age.
Now, you understand.
6) She was born in a CHURCH!
Julie additionally revealed how she was born in a church, she revealed how her mom went into labour for three days, and was taken to the church for prayers and later birthed her!
The final time she referred to as me Aduragbemi was when she instructed me how I used to be born. She was in labour for 3 days! She stored seeing a black cat and each time she noticed it, she misplaced her energy. The unusual factor was she was the one one seeing the cat.
That’s how I got here into this stunning world at C.A.C. (Christ Apostolic Church), Oke-Iyanu, Ogba, Lagos. That was the reasonbehind my title, Aduragbemi.
7) She began Menstruating on the fifth of April, 2010
On the 5 of April, 2010, I bought house, took off my uniform and noticed a blood stain.
At this time, I used to be in Senior Secondary School, at Babs Fafunwa Millenium, Ojodu, Lagos. I didn’t keep in mind having any harm and mum was not house.
When I found the place the blood was coming from, I began crying. How would I clarify this to my mum? I stored cleansing, but it surely stored flowing. I hurried to Toyosi Oyesile’s place. She requested what was improper and I defined to her, perplexed at bleeding
non cease, with out an harm. She laughed at me; she laughed so arduous, she practically choked on her laughter. I used to be irritated at her insensitivity. I needed to stroll out when she pulled me
again, locked the door and mentioned, “Congratulations. You’re now a girl”. She hugged me very tight.
8) Her position in Jenifa’s diary gave her fame NOT Money!
She additionally revealed that her position in Janifa’s diary made her well-known NOT wealthy, opposite to what individuals suppose! She additionally talked about how she hustled for Ushering jobs as little as 5k simply to make ends meet after performing the Toyo child’s position within the Comic Series
The plans my mum and I had have been exaggerated. I used to be paid for the collection, however the cash I obtained couldn’t do all my mum and I had fantasized about.
In retrospect, I chortle at the issues my mum had deliberate to do with the pay; we had large desires.
I truthfully didn’t understand how large my position in Jenifa’s Diary could be after I bought the position. I assumed I might be accomplished after the primary season. I used to be stunned after I was referred to as again season after season. I bought so busy. Jenifa’s Diary virtually grew to become my life; I used to be nearly all the time on set.
Even although I used to be already performing within the Jenifa’s Diary TV collection, each time I bought a name for ushering jobs, I took them. I wanted the additional pay. I did first rate ushering jobs. I had values I couldn’t compromise. No membership, bar or night time ushering jobs. No jobs with
indecent outfits. I did the common marriage ceremony, and live performance jobs. The pay for first rate ushering jobs was as little as Five thousand Naira per job however for me it was value it.
My mum was involved for me, questioning why I might be on TV and nonetheless be going for such low cost jobs. I instructed her I had to take action. I couldn’t sit at house when not on set doing nothing and I undoubtedly was not going to sleep round. Dee didn’t like the thought
both, however he understood my place.
There have been instances I went for ushering jobs and other people recognised me. I smiled at them. At instances, fellow ushers jeered at me, questioning what Toyo Baby was doing serving as an usher with them. I all the time discovered a means of laughing my means out of the teasing.
I used to be dwelling with the Adiguns at this time. TiTiMi all the time gave us month-to-month stipends.
Even if I requested for extra earlier than the following was due, I used to be certain they’d give me, however I needed to make more cash myself.
But finally, the ushering job began getting very embarrassing. There was a day I went all the best way to Shagamu for an ushering job and after an extended day, working, we have been
paid One thousand Naira. The Madame mentioned she had not been paid and requested us to jot down down our account particulars. Except she plans to pay tomorrow, I bought no alert.
At that time, I cried to God. I felt cheated. It was getting too humiliating. I cried to God and He made me know I ought to cease the ushering jobs. It was solely God that would cease me regardless of the embarrassment.
I used to be asking Him to ensure the lady paid me, however He mentioned I ought to cease ushering. I used to be initially upset with God, however earlier than I left the place of prayer, He had comforted me.
9) She might NOT go to highschool even after gaining admission cos of poverty!
I graduated from Babs Fafunwa Millenium Senior Grammar School, Ojodu-Berger, Lagos. I used to be the Head Girl in my ultimate yr at faculty, liked by the principal, Mrs. Adebayo, different lecturers and college students.
My Valedictory Ceremony at school was a really emotional one. I used to be lacking everybody and every little thing already, coupled with the truth that I used to be afraid of going through life outdoors the 4 partitions of my faculty.
Before I graduated, I took the JAMB examination and I handed. I used to be already an undergraduate at the University of Ibadan as I had been given admission to review the course I utilized for, Mass Communication. Mrs. Adebayo was all smiles after I made the
data public. She introduced it to the college with a lot pleasure. People applauded and my lecturers congratulated me.
Little did I do know I used to be going to lose the admission. My mum tried so arduous to boost my acceptance price, tuition and different crucial funds, however she didn’t make headway.
I instructed her to not fear; I assured her our funds could be higher the following yr. She nonetheless tried to boost it, however we missed the deadline. She was bitter for days and questioned why
they’d not lengthen the deadline.
That was how I missed my admission to the University of Ibadan. My principal and my English trainer, Mrs. Obabolujo referred to as me to observe up. When I disclosed the dangerous information, they have been upset with me and instructed me I ought to have stored them abreast with how
issues have been going.
10) Her mother and father are separated and are each married to completely different individuals now!
Her mom married a Native physician and her father married a divorcee who pressured her and her youthful brother to hawk puff even when she was affected by rooster pox and had an contaminated leg!
Letting all these out wouldn’t have been a simple job for Juliana, however i commend her for this! What’s your tackle the guide guys?
Transcript Credits: Kemi Filani.